It’s a million pearl-like moments in love, but when you let seriousness take over, the beauty of so many of them fades.

With ease comes joy.

That’s when I picked up the book

DONT SWEAT THE SMALL STUFF IN LOVE

written by Richard & Kristine Carlson

This book is not just advice on love, but a quiet realization that sometimes, the smaller stuff makes it hard to embrace relationships.
It is a beautiful reminder that we really need to cultivate some basic relationship habits like not to overreact for criticisms, focus on appreciation, be a better listener, choose peace over irritation.

Why This Book Felt Personal

Basically, I am an embracer of love, and I believe that’s where the whole universe aligns.
When I first looked at the title, Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff, it reminded me that I sometimes blow small things out of proportion unknowingly.
So I thought this would definitely be an eye-opener for me — and that’s how it actually was.

This book was so insightful and showed me that nothing is as complicated as it seems — unless you make it so.
There’s no sense in taking everything personally when your partner only wants to be vulnerable with you in this world.

Key Lessons That Stayed With Me

Lesson 1: Stop wishing he or she were different.

When you face unacceptable behaviour from your partner, even once in a while, your mind puts you into the trap of yearning for a slightly better partner.
The toxic thoughts of “would’ve” and “could’ve” crosses your mind.
But always remember —
love is a quest to discover a gem that already lies within your own grasp.

Lesson 2: Stop being defensive

Defensiveness always leads to arguments, slowly steals the fun from your life.

How It Changed My Perspective

This book made me reflect on the fact that everything is in my hands.
If I choose to carry my love with lots of ease and fun, then my life will find its colours in its own way.

I recommend this book to anyone who seeks peace in a relationship.

We unknowingly forget that nothing really matters as if our mind intimidates us for everything.
It’s not about who starts first, but rather who ends it with ease and grace.
No big deal — after all, it’s all just small stuff.

Love isn’t only about finding solutions to what’s beyond our control, but about choosing patience, handling each other gently, and never letting distance grow between you and your partner.

WHAT IS ONE THING IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP YOU CAN CHOOSE NOT TO SWEAT TODAY, AND SIMPLY RESPOND TO WITH PEACE ?